Monday, April 22, 2013

I want to...but I just CAN'T. Why I cant buy into Dove.


Dove’s Real Beauty Campaign…I want to but I just can’t. Here's why...

Gil Zamora, the forensic artist
Yesterday, a close friend was telling me about an apparent online sensation I would be interested in. He told me Dove was having a forensic artist draw women based on the descriptions they presented, next he would draw a portrait based on the descriptions other people described. Apparently it is bringing people to tears, because the first portrait always looks like some deformed nether-creature. (I exaggerate, but why is the first picture "ugly", I don't get it. In the Real Beauty Campaign it is ok to call that other woman ugly and cry about here, but thank god you don't really look like that. Right? So confused.)



The thing is, I am really suspicious of Dove’s “campaign.” But let me clarify,

1.     I absolutely agree we need to reevaluate media messages, as you can tell by reading past posts.
2.     I appreciate Dove for venturing into something new, and striving to make a positive contribution.

However, the first thing I thought was, “Why only women?” I just feel like it portrays all women as insecure, and self-loathing.  Maybe “we” are, and maybe the media contributes, I don’t think anyone feels there isn’t something they would want to “fix.” But in the video I watched, the woman said her mother told her she had a big chin. Who knows the context of that original conversation; maybe it was a comparison to the rest of the women in her family, I don’t know. Further, I would be interested if men had the same responses. I know men who buy dove products. Wouldn’t a real beauty campaign include them as well?  I mean, lets go into heteronormal-marketing-land for a minute.  I get it, in order to convince us we need to buy your product you need to convince us we need it. That’s been going on for a while now thanks to Edward Bernays’s public relations contributions. However, what I think Dove is riding the line on, is telling women that they are in-fact insecure. They are saying, “See what all those other brands do, they tell you your ugly and now I have provided proof that you believed them. Here’s some man, he is going to draw a super deformed version of your description, then I am going to bring in a stranger, and from memory they will envision you as a perfect human being. By-the-way, you are welcome, and buy our lotion in the gift shop on the way out.” (Also, notice there were men participating in the second half of the portrait drawing thing. Giving descriptions, but not the first. Maybe reinforcing women’s “need” to feel beautiful by men, “See this dude said you were beautiful so it’s real!” Sorry guys once I turn it on, it’s hard to stop it.)

But maybe this is my problem, because there is no way I will ever totally trust a company that has something to gain from my so-called  self realizations. Dove needs you to believe they are the good guys, and maybe they are, but I doubt it.



 You can watch as they film women  (and only women) twitching and crying because they just told them they have no confidence in themselves. Also feel free to comment below!




NY Times article on the campaign:

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/04/19/business/media/dove-ad-on-womens-self-image-creates-an-online-sensation.html?ref=fashion&_r=0

Dove's website:

http://realbeautysketches.dove.us/


!!!!!UPDATE!!!!!!!!

Apparently everybody else is rolling their eyes too

Ad Week
5 reasons why some critics are hating Dove's real beauty sketches

Huffington Post

Dove's 'Real Beauty Sketches' tell Women you are more beautiful than you think

Slate magazine
  What critics are missing with Dove's new campaign